Today is thirteen days, which is one week and six days, of
the Omer. Yesod of Gevurah, Bonding in Discipline / Judgement / Reverence.
judge, a piece of me gets stuck to the judgment. This is part of the reason
gossiping is an extreme sin according to Jewish law. Judging capriciously or
maliciously creates a place for evil. This is also why discipline that is
fear-based backfires, causing our children to listen less; loosening the bonds
commitment is to seeking the higher path of discipline, always seeking to look
beyond my immediate thoughts and feelings to the reverential essence of being.
I will explain to my children why we find it so disturbing
that they drink bath water and attempt to drink from the dog’s water, rather
than simply yelling and punishing. I will work harder to work through my
feelings and respond without raising my voice. Yes, I am only human and I
forgive myself for my inconsistency. Today, this is my exercise.
Today is twelve days, which is one week and five days, of
the Omer. Hod of Gevurah, Humility in Discipline / Judgment / Reverence.
is another virtue I am learning as an adult. There are times when I feel
swimming in it (like when a fellow student calls me rabbi and I ignore him
because, hi, I’m just a first-year student). When my judging brain is in
action, humility is the farthest thing from me.
work environments, I doubt anyone has ever considered “humble” as a
fitting description for me. And yet, like many people, there is a deeply rooted
feeling of being unseen / not rising high enough that distances me from
The Meaningful Life Center exercise for the day is: “Before judging anyone, insure that you are doing so selflessly with no personal bias.” I’m not sure it is possible to judge without any bias. So I’m going to keep meditating on this exercise while I prepare for my first day of classes following Passover break.
Today is eleven days, which is one week and four days, of
the Omer. Netzach in Gevurah, Endurance in Discipline.
steadfast to negative judgements comes easily to me. Staying clear eyed and
focused on my path is eternally difficult. Every day, I battle my Yetzer HaRa,
my inclination towards destruction. I am trying hard to discipline my children
by first disciplining myself – gaining control of my feelings before reacting
to my precious toddlers. It doesn’t always work – sometimes, the bite of a
teething toddler is too much.
May we all resolve to endure, to accept our own faults and
keep moving forward toward the vision of ourselves connected to deep truth,
meaning, and love. This is the endurance in discipline I strive for.
my discipline endure this weekend – may I hold fast to my resolution to look
without buying at the LA Times Festival of Books — except for age-appropriate
kids’ books. Why yes, we do already own a treasure box of Harry Potter, Beverly
Cleary, and Roald Dahl…)
Today is ten days, which is one week and three days of the
Omer. Tiferet in Gevurah, Compassion in Discipline.
There is an inherent tension between those two words. I have trouble expressing pure compassion – selflessly accepting another on their own terms. I’m reading “Group Spiritual Direction,” by Rose Mary Dougherty, a Christian perspective on being present for another as they find their way to the Spirit within that flows through all of us.
theology of the book is not mine, it is helping me understand the principles
behind the (required) spiritual direction class I am in. And it clarifies for
me what it means to “channel and direct one’s strengths with
compassion.” (Paraphrase of the Meaningful Life Center meditation for
I didn’t accomplish a tenth of my agenda for the day. With
compassion, I am accepting the vicissitudes of toddler time and moving forward.
Today is nine days, which is one week and two days of the Omer. Gevurah of Gevurah, Discipline of Discipline.
Sleep deprivation has ruined my internal discipline. And my mind races with each passing conversation on Facebook. I am on a journey to discipline my use of Facebook.
How does time vanish in your life? Are you intentional
about every day’s journey? Do you keep a schedule and reflect on whether you
accomplished your daily goals?
Today I will sleep more, set a realistic schedule, and
stick to it. I will try to create a daily routine, and remember my children are
my disciples, not my wards.
Today is Seven Days of the Omer, which is One Week of the
counting of the Omer, Shechinah / Malchut of Chesed, Place of Dwelling /
Kingdom of Lovingkindness.
May I have
the courage to stand steadfast in my search for love, truth, meaning, and
holiness. May I always remember to cultivate the holiness within me, so that
from my inner essence I may approach other souls with love and honor.
May the indwelling of love within each of us radiate
throughout our interactions. May we accept differences with compassion and may
we stand firm for our core values.
Today is the sixth day of the Omer, Yesod of Chesed,
Bonding in Love.
of affection, camaraderie, and appreciation for the unique gifts of each soul
are needed to fully actualize love. I am grateful to experience these bonds in
my family of origin and my family of choice.
The Meaningful Life Center published the MyOmer app, the source of the meditation that begins my counting. Chabad published the Omer Counter – I prefer their version of the blessing that is supposed to accompany the counting when done at night.
According to strict Jewish law, you cannot say the blessing
if you don’t start counting on the second night of Passover without missing a
day. As Rabbi Finley, says every year, the Omer Police are woefully underfunded
– so engage with the tradition as you can because it is truly transformative.
This is the first year I have dedicated to completing the count continuously at
night and I have to say, it is helping me rediscover why I am in rabbinical
Today is the fifth day of the Omer, Hod in Chesed, Humilty
May I have the humility to lead with Chesed in all of my
interactions, especially with those closest to me. May I have the strength to
overcome the fractures in my character, the ingrained patterns of
destructiveness. May I always humbly remember that knowledge is less important
than right action.
Today is the fourth day of the counting of the Omer.
Netzach of Chesed, the Endurance of Love, the Triumph of Lovingkindness.
if selfless love is truly enduring. I wonder if enduring love is healthier when
it respects boundaries and creates boundaries to honor the one who is loving.
In the end, love will always triumph. Before I felt
comfortable expressing Jewish wisdom, I felt the truth of the musical, Les
Miserables: “To love another person is to see the face of God.” May
we all experience pure love, may it endure, and may we honor its triumph.
Today is the third day of the Omer. Tiferet of Chesed,
Harmony of Loving-kindness, Compassionate Love.
this sephira, we merge in perfect harmony the strict boundaries of Gevurah with
the overflow of love in Chesed. Selfless Love finds itself in Tiferet of
Chesed, giving though the other does not deserve our love, being of service
even when our service is unnoticed.
I strayed far from the path of Chesed. My rhetoric focused on acknowledging
only the struggles of people who walk my path and think in my logic patterns.
May I always remember the souls who surround me are on their own journeys, with
their own stumbling blocks. May I focus more on removing those impediments. May
I always remember we each are doing our best. May I deepen my understanding of
compassionate love and may I express it to everyone I meet, whether in person